When a person is first placed into a nursing home, they are not going to like it that much. They will complain and want to go home. But there are a few things that family and friends can do to make their new home more appealing.
1. Familiar furnishings always create comfort. Move in an elderly person’s favorite chair and they will immediately feel better. Adding knickknacks and pictures of family members will bring back more pleasant memories. Many nursing homes will allow families to redecorate a room in order to make a person feel more at home.
2. Curtains and rugs are other items that will make the room feel more inviting. If the person is sharing a room with another resident, decorate their side of the room only.
3. Blankets and other heirlooms that have been in the family for a long time are a way to bring back the past in order to help the person deal with the present.
Moving into a nursing home can be a traumatic experience for an elderly person. Try to find ways to make the nursing home fee more like home. If the person is allowed to keep a small refrigerator in their room, put their favorite snacks and drinks in there or give these items to the nursing staff and them to serve it to the person during snack time.
Giving an elderly person items that they recognize and food that they like will help make the transition a little easier. No one like being in a new place, so try to make it as easy as possible.
Many elderly people in nursing facilities have Alzheimer’s disease. This disease causes the short term potion of the brain to shut down. Elderly people who have the disease may forget their children’s names, but will remember events and people from their childhood. This disease can be very painful to those who have the disease and painful for loved ones who have to witness their parents or other relatives live with Alzheimer’s.
The best way to cope with this disease is to accept it and work around it. There will be days when the disease will not be as bad. Unfortunately, those who suffer from Alzheimer’s disease are prone to violent behavior, verbal abuse, and other uncharacteristic behavior. Waiting until the person calms down is the best way to handle the situation. Otherwise, they could become more violent and uncontrollable. There are medications available that can curb violent behavior.
Visiting a person with Alzheimer’s disease in a nursing facility can be frightening at first. But after a few visits, it will become easier. Having patience and a willingness to forgive are great qualities to bring to the nursing facility. Even though the person has changed, they are still the same person filled with emotions and feelings. They may not always remember things they should, but this does not mean that they do not care. Sometimes one memory can trigger another which will cause them to remember recent events. There is no cure for Alzheimer’s disease, but much research is being conducted to help fight the effects of it.