Getting an elderly person to socialize can be tough sometimes. If they are new to the facility and do not know anyone, sometimes they will not want to meet new people. But there are ways to encourage them to join in on facility activities.

• Introduce them to others in the facility. Sometimes this will spark an interest in joining activity groups.

• List some of the activities going on for the month and see which ones might sound interesting. Let them think about it for a day or so and then ask again.

• Ask why they don’t want to join in any activities. There may be other issues that are a concern.

Listening can help in many ways. Look for other issues that might be of concern. Many times, the person is just feeling anxious or tired. There can be many reasons why a person does not want to participate in social activities. Try to get the activities director to ask questions as well. Maybe they can schedule a one on one activity until the person is comfortable enough to want to be part of a group.

Socialization is an important part of living a healthy life. Many elderly people suffer from depression and should be around others at least part of the day. Being left out will not help. Many times if an elderly person sees others having a good time, they will want to participate. Other times, having one on one activity with the activities director or nursing staff is a start. Be sure to visit often and spend time with the person. This will also help.